Coaching or Counselling?

I have referred elsewhere to being certified as a coach and also licensed in California as a psychotherapist and am often asked about the difference between coaching and counselling/psychotherapy (I use these terms interchangeably).  If people and their concerns fitted neatly into boxes it would be easy to prescribe coaching for one and counselling for another - but we are complex creatures with multi-faceted issues, so such defining is not straightforward.  In fact, the benefit of working with someone who has both skill-sets is that we are free to navigate between the two to best meet your needs.

As a general guideline though, clients most suited to coaching are those whose history is relatively resolved and who are concerned with their level of functioning today not supporting where they want to be in the future.  Here are some examples of concerns which are good candidates for coaching:

  • managing stress
  • wanting to be assessed by others as being a leader
  • desire to improve communication skills
  • desire to build confidence
  • seeking job promotion
  • contemplating relocation
  • desire to improve relationship skills, especially for the workplace
  • "mid-life crisis" offering the opportunity to assess career choice and potential change in direction

Coaching may be conducted in person, via skype or over the phone, depending on the issues involved.

 

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Again, in general terms, clients most suited to a psychotherapeutic approach are those whose history is having significant impact on their present day functioning, the exploration of which will significantly contribute to achieving their goals.  Here are some examples of concerns which are probably best addressed in therapy:

  • family of origin concerns (relationship with parents especially if alcoholic or abusive, sibling issues, limiting familial beliefs, etc.)
  • mood disorders such as depression and anxiety
  • managing pain and other chronic medical conditions
  • desire to be in relationship and finding this difficult
  • alcoholism or drug addiction
  • premarital or marriage counselling
  • affair recovery
  • divorce preparation or recovery
  • parenting issues
  • trauma whether childhood in origin or as a result of accident, abuse, war, etc.
  • resolution of grief whether through death or abandonment

Psychotherapy tends to be carried out in person but, depending on the personality and issues involved, it may be possible to conduct some therapy over the phone.  This would be something for us to explore.

 

 

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